The first word you see is your biggest green flag

All 16 words and what they mean

Spoilers ahead. Find your word in the grid first, then look it up here.

• APOLOGIZEWhen you get it wrong, you say sorry without a speech about why it was not your fault.
• BOUNDARYYou can say no kindly and hear no gracefully, and both make you easier to trust.
• CARINGYou check in after the hard appointment and bring soup before anyone admits they are sick.
• ENCOURAGEYou are the first to say go for it, and you mean it even when the idea is a long shot.
• FAIRYou split the bill, the chores, and the credit evenly, and everyone has noticed.
• GRATEFULYou say thank you for small things, and people around you feel seen because of it.
• LISTENSYou put the phone down and actually hear people, which is rarer than it should be.
• LOYALTYYou defend your people when they are not in the room, which is the only place it counts.
• OPENNESSYou can hear a different view without getting defensive, and sometimes you change your mind.
• PUNCTUALYou treat other people's time as valuable, and showing up on time is how you prove it.
• REMEMBERSYou recall the coffee order, the big interview date, and the name of their childhood dog.
• RESPECTYou treat the server, the intern, and the CEO with exactly the same courtesy.
• STEADYYour mood does not swing with the weather, so people always know where they stand with you.
• SUPPORTYou show up for the recital, the move, and the bad day without being asked twice.
• TRUTHFULYou would rather have one awkward honest talk than ten comfortable vague ones.
• WARMTHNew people feel like old friends within ten minutes of meeting you.